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Finding Purpose in RetirementFinding our Purpose in Life

For this episode, I will give you an update on my retirement quest, we have a health segment on Pickleball, and Barbara will give an update on how her actual retirement is going.

Six Pillars of Retirement Lifestyle

Since the last episode, I’ve been working on my own six pillars of retirement lifestyle.

Significant Other– Les and I took an impromptu day trip the other day. We’re trying to avoid just staying at home and watching TV. Our relationship is strong. But we’re both struggling right now with our lack of social activities.

Friendship-Over the last month, I’ve been making an effort to solidify some of the relationships that I formed over the last few years since I’ve moved here. In a fifty-five-plus community with a lot of clubs, it’s easy to make a lot of acquaintances. But there’s a difference between being friendly with someone and actually being friends with someone.

Family– On the family side I’ve had a disappointment. My estranged brother recently informed us that he won’t be attending my father’s memorial service that he helped plan last year. I’m really disappointed that my brother’s not coming, although honestly, I kind of knew he wouldn’t. You know, all of us have family disappointments, and mine is no different.

On a positive note, I’m trying to build my relationships with other family members. I usually don’t send my siblings gifts for their birthday. But this year, to help strengthen our relationships, I sent my two sisters a gift for their birthday. I know it’s a small thing, but it’s what I did to help with those relationships.

Spiritual– My spiritual pillar is also indeed lacking. Part of it is because I’m really not ready to attend church again. We are currently in an uptick of COVID cases where I live. And not only that, but I know at least three people who have died. They were all fully vaccinated, and one was healthy and in her late 40s. So yeah, I’m scared. And yeah, I’m not as social as I once was because of that. But I’ve been working on this. And I’m trying to give thanks for what I have. I’ve also been meditating and praying, and I’ve been reading my former pastor’s daily emails.

Health-On the health side, I’ve been doing very well. If you’re a regular listener, then you already know that I lost 20 pounds during COVID. I know, totally opposite of what most people did. It’s been a struggle, but worth it. Because I’m lighter now, I can do more. I’m swimming once a week, I’m doing water aerobics five days a week, and synchronized swimming twice a week. I know, you think I’m probably going to turn into a fish, at least Les thinks that. In addition to all the water activities that I’m doing, I watch what I eat. However, I’m disappointed that my cholesterol is still high.

Purpose– I struggle with this and it is one of the reasons I’m still working. If I’m not working, then what is my purpose in life going to be? Is it this show? Is it doing fun things? I mean, doing fun things isn’t really a purpose, is it? I don’t have grandkids, so they can’t be my purpose. So, until I figure it out, I’ll still work because I really do enjoy helping people.

So, tell me, help me out. What’s your purpose in life? Have you figured that out yet? Send me an email, at [email protected] and tell me what you’re doing? What is your purpose in life?

Health Segment

For this week’s Rock Your Retirement Health Segment, I have Lynn Cherry with me. She is the host of a podcast called Pickleball Fire. As you can imagine, she talks about pickleball. Lynn moved from North Texas to Connecticut and needed to find an indoor activity to do during the winter. She went to her local gym to check out what pickleball was about. She ended up playing that day and immediately loved it!Finding Purpose in Life

It’s a game very popular with people in their 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and even 80’s

Lynn enjoyed the sport so much she ended up starting a website to grow and promote the sport. During the beginning of the pandemic in 2020, she actually started her podcast.

Among other things, Lynn talks about what pickleball is, why a lot of older people really love the sport, and how it’s played.

I asked Lynn to tell me if there was one thing that you want our listeners to learn about pickleball what would it be? She said in terms of the game if you need something to do and to get up off the couch to try pickleball. She said that it isn’t like going to the gym. It is fun, easy and she has even interviewed someone on her Podcast who lost 100 pounds by playing pickleball! So, it is definitely great exercise

If you don’t like going to the gym, or don’t have a membership to one, and would like to find a pickleball court near you, Lynn has you covered.

If you go to https://pickleballfire.com/courts you can find various places to play. And within that search feature, you can also find instructors. She said it isn’t necessary to get an instructor but if that is something you would be interested in that is another option.

Pickleball is becoming so popular that there are even restaurants that are putting in pickleball courts! You can visit https://chickennpickle.com/ to check it out

What’s is going on in Barbara’s Life?

Finding Purpose in Life We talk about Barbara’s recent trip to Mexico with her friend. There was actually a hurricane coming during her trip but thankfully, they did not get a direct hit where they were staying. Then, a few days following that, there was a devastating hurricane in Louisiana.

There was one day during her trip where she was walking by herself and just kind of asking God what’s going to happen now with fall approaching. With everything shutting down, she was coming to the conclusion that she needed to cancel all of her trips and just stop planning because it’s just so unpredictable.

Not having plans is difficult for Barbara. Learning to live through a pandemic is not easy and like all of us, Barbara is trying to figure out how to navigate her “new normal”

We talked about Barbara trying to find her purpose. She decided she needs to just accept and lean into this fall, that it’s not going to be what she planned. But she needs to be okay with it.

Final thoughts from Barbara on Finding Purpose

It’s realizing that having a plan is one thing but being able to adapt that plan to the conditions that there are at the time, not getting too attached to one specific vision. Because then you can miss the butterflies. You can miss out on what’s right in front of you. Something as simple as taking a dog for a walk or taking a child for a walk. There are so many things that we tie up with entertainment. Going to a place like Disneyland or going on a cruise or going to Mexico, when really right around us there is life being lived.

There are wonderful people and there are stories to be heard. And in our zeal to program our lives to book a trip, how many times are we missing out on things that are right around us? Because we’re just not looking for it? Because we’re so focused on this future thing. So for me, I have no regrets about retiring. I have felt so enriched this summer, I’m so grateful. It’s kind of like get over yourself. So what if you don’t get all your plan. Find something else to pivot on. Take a class, learn to paint, call a friend. It’s just kind of like, say yes to life, and quit worrying about the things you don’t have is the lesson I’ve been learning this summer.

 

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